Do Boys and Girls View
Competition in Different Ways?

Mary Healy Jonas, Melpomene Research Director

Over the years, Melpomene Institute has frequently received questions from coaches, parents, the media and others about boys and girls and how/if they participate in sports differently. As we searched for answers to their questions, we came to discover that there wasn't much out there in the way of research about this topic. Therefore, early in 2000, we decided to explore this question ourselves, to develop a questionnaire that would give us an overview of where young male and female athletes fell along the spectrum of attitudes and behaviors towards competition and to find out if they were different from each other. The following is an abbreviated report highlighting some telling results. The full report will be available in the Summer, 2002 Melpomene Journal.

METHODS

DEMOGRAPHICS

Sample demographics (N = 879)

Gender

Female 557 (63%)

Male 320 (37%)

Racial Background

White 85%

Asian 1.5%

Other 2.5%

Chose not to identify 11%

Age

12 - 13 years 40%

14 - 15 years 31%

16 - 17 years 29%

School district

Suburban 56%

Urban 33%

Rural 7%

Academics

All A's 40%

A's & B's 41%

B's & C's 10%

C's & D's 2%

Chose not to answer 7%

 

ANALYSIS

Variables included in the "unhealthy" variable

1. I would do anything to win

2. The main goal of playing sports is to win

3. It is more important for key players to play in order to win than for everyone to get equal playing time

4. I dislike my opponents

5. I get very upset when my team loses

6. Winning makes me feel powerful as a person

7. I have a hard time forgetting a loss

How important is:

8. winning

9. scoring a goal

Variables included in the "winning" variable

1. I would do anything to win

2. The main goal of playing sports is to win

3. It is more important for key players to play in order to win than for everyone to get equal playing time

How important is:

4. winning

 

RESULTS

Descriptive Results

As the chart below shows, the reasons that boys and girls gave for why they play sports are virtually identical:

"I play soccer because I want to…"

 

Girls

Boys

have fun

99%

94%

improve at my sport

98%

94%

learn new skills

95%

89%

be competitive

94%

94%

be in shape

92%

88%

be with friends

92%

87%

keep busy

73%

63%

get into a good college

57%

69%

Even as the motivation to play was the same, some notable differences were found in the attitudes and behaviors of boys and girls.

The following are a few of the differences between the way boys and girls answered specific questions probing attitudes towards winning.

The far right column gives the total percentage of boys and girls answering "frequently" or "almost always."

"I would do almost anything to win" *

 

Almost
never

Occasionally

Sometimes

Frequently

Almost always

Frequently + Almost Always

Female

20%

23%

27%

15%

14%

29%

Male

11%

15%

26%

20%

29%

49%

"It is more important for key players to play in order to win than for everyone to get equal playing time" *

Almost
never

Occasionally

Sometimes

Frequently

Almost always

Frequently + Almost Always

Female

25%

21%

30%

14%

10%

24%

Male

11%

12%

36%

21%

21%

42%

"I get very upset when my team loses" *

Almost
never

Occasionally

Sometimes

Frequently

Almost always

Frequently + Almost Always

Female

21%

28%

33%

10%

8%

18%

Male

10%

23%

26%

21%

21%

42%

* Pearson Chi-Square = .001

Unhealthy attitudes towards competition

The difference noted in the above section compelled us to ask ourselves: "so what?" What does it mean that boys and girls differed in these areas? We decided to look at the numbers from the vantage point of competition as being made up of a range of behaviors and attitudes, some of which are healthy and some that are unhealthy.

The age factor

In addition to gender differences, we anticipated that differences might be evident between the younger and older participants. The following few statistics show the differences in answers between the younger and older participants on a few key variables*.

 

12-13 years

16-17 years

"I would do almost anything to win"

33%

45%

"The main goal of playing sports is to win"

19%

34%

"Is important that everyone gets a chance to play" 66% 25%

* the percentage reflect those answering "frequently" or "almost always" to the questions.

Pressure towards competition When asked if they felt pressure to be competitive, 43% of the athletes responded affirmatively (42% of the girls and 46% of the boys). Of those who listed sources for the pressure, the following is the breakdown of where these kids feel the pressure is coming from:

Of the 125 athletes who fall into the unhealthy range of the sample, 58% respond affirmatively to the pressure question (73% of the girls and 52% of the boys), however, the breakdown of the sources of that pressure is almost identical to the whole sample.

DISCUSSION

The findings from the study offer compelling insights into kids who play sports -- their motivations and their feelings towards competition. Further, it raises more questions about these very same topics. The final report in the Melpomene Journal will address the following questions raised by the findings:

The full Competition Study report will be published in the Summer, 2002 Melpomene Journal.